Whose ring is it anyway? What to do if marriage goes South?

As adolescents, we often heard from experienced people that marriage is a nine-day wonder. But it is phase when our brain takes a back seat and our Mills and Boon fed heart thinks everything goes like in those romances. Its only when this prized relationship goes wrong, that we realize that marriage is much more than those paperback romances. There are options like talking with friends who are already married, discussing with parents and these days, there is another help called marriage counseling. 

While these things can help to an extent, but nothing would work out till we understand the problem ourselves, stand up to take responsibilities of the factors that eventually lead to a problematic marriage and then act accordingly. Communication gap is a major problem these days. Primarily, both husband and wife rarely spent time together. They spend more productive time with their colleagues rather than with each other. As a result they discuss the problems with them instead of doing it with each other. However, if you want your marriage to work, talk to your spouse first. Try to sort things out with a cool head. Mind it, losing your temper may mean losing all hopes too. 

There are three things that can help you from going your marriage astray- cool head, no drama and get professional help as early as you can. Since divorce is the option that comes with marriage, that certainly does not mean you need it too. Remember it is not your partner who is always at fault. There has been some contribution from your side too. As early as you recognize it, better for your marriage it would be. Here are some time tested approaches followed by many such couples-

Bridge communication gap- As mentioned before; spend more time with your spouse. Talk out the differences. Take an initiative from your side of mentioning positive aspects of the marriage and your relationship. 

Spice up your married life by taking long walks together, planning a vacation, watching a movie or dining together at your favorite joint during dating days. This will help you rediscover each other and you may find your long lost love.

Success of these aspects depend on your keenness to succeed but these formulas will definitely be an earnest attempt to save marriage and restore an amicable relationship even if not like one you shared before. 

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